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mental health & wellness

this is not a section i have seen on other neocities sites, but i wanted to include it in mine because it's an important part of my life.

i grew up with trauma, as many if not most people have, and was greatly affected by it throughout childhood & young adulthood. for the past 4-5 years, i've made some fairly significant changes in my ways of thinking, and have been working on developing a better set of tools to hopefully help me continue to improve.

i'm sharing some of these here, for myself but also for anyone else who may benefit from them ❤︎



⚠︎ important disclaimer! ⚠

i am not a mental health professional! this is just a collection of resources that have helped me personally

information

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
maslow

Internal Family Systems
IFS

Window of Tolerance
WOT

strategies for when you're dysregulated

grounding techniques
box breathing
box breathing
the 5-4-3-2-1 technique
5 senses
progressive muscle relaxation
PMR
vagus nerve stimulation
techniques
affirmations for emotional flashbacks
affirmations
when you're hyperaroused

use these techniques to calm down when you're hyperaroused (in fight or flight - feeling panicked, agitated or activated)

  • drink herbal tea or cocoa
  • self-massage
  • go for a nature walk
  • take a warm bath
  • cuddle with a pet
  • shake out your limbs like you're covered in water
  • watch meditation or asmr videos
  • lay under a heavy blanket or ask for a tight hug
when you're hypoaroused

use these techniques to "wake up" from hypoaroused (freeze or fawn - feeling dissociated, spacey or numb)

  • splash cold water on your face
  • dance to fast/energetic music
  • chew gum, mints or cinnamon/ginger candies
  • do yoga or stretching
  • get a cold drink
  • do EFT tapping
  • do grounding techniques like 5-4-3-2-1 or counting everything in the room that's blue
  • smell something energizing like citrus or peppermint
calming videos
sensory videos
asmr for emotional regulation

journal prompts

prompts coming soon

calm box

coming soon!!